yes i added the 587 at the end
i just tried again and checked the ufw.log file ... it did not update... the timestamps match to when I did have it enabled troubleshooting earlier
traceroute to 108.161.131.209 (108.161.131.209), 30 hops max, 60 byte packets
1 _gateway (10.0.0.1) 0.736 ms 0.926 ms 0.637 ms
2 100.92.55.131 (100.92.55.131) 19.295 ms 19.475 ms 19.627 ms
3 po-321-370-rur302.londonderry.nh.boston.comcast.net (96.108.58.153) 12.653 ms 18.866 ms 18.971 ms
4 po-300-xar01.londonderry.nh.boston.comcast.net (68.85.162.21) 19.406 ms 18.799 ms 18.908 ms
5 * po-300-xar01.londonderry.nh.boston.comcast.net (68.85.162.21) 19.022 ms 19.145 ms
6 162.151.52.50 (162.151.52.50) 21.620 ms 18.098 ms *
7 * be-501-ar01.needham.ma.boston.comcast.net (162.151.52.34) 15.231 ms *
8 * ae3.3611.edge2.Dallas1.level3.net (4.69.209.5) 54.283 ms 56.639 ms
9 4.71.217.102 (4.71.217.102) 57.175 ms 53.740 ms ae3.3611.edge2.Dallas1.level3.net (4.69.209.5) 60.127 ms
10 ae3.jbdr-02.dal.tierpoint.net (206.123.64.43) 60.396 ms 60.623 ms 60.480 ms
11 xe-001.jcore-04.dal.tierpoint.net (206.123.65.30) 60.871 ms ae3.jbdr-02.dal.tierpoint.net (206.123.64.43) 60.184 ms 60.656 ms
12 xe-001.jcore-04.dal.tierpoint.net (206.123.65.30) 61.010 ms 72.249.128.19 (72.249.128.19) 60.355 ms xe-001.jcore-04.dal.tierpoint.net (206.123.65.30) 60.786 ms
13 server.eyethrees.net (108.161.131.209) 68.464 ms 72.249.128.19 (72.249.128.19) 60.403 ms server.eyethrees.net (108.161.131.209) 60.613 ms
$ sudo traceroute -T -p 587 108.161.131.209
traceroute to 108.161.131.209 (108.161.131.209), 30 hops max, 60 byte packets
1 _gateway (10.0.0.1) 0.709 ms 0.621 ms 0.850 ms
2 100.92.55.130 (100.92.55.130) 20.119 ms 100.92.55.131 (100.92.55.131) 19.747 ms 20.152 ms
3 po-321-370-rur302.londonderry.nh.boston.comcast.net (96.108.58.153) 19.791 ms 96.108.57.113 (96.108.57.113) 12.460 ms 21.008 ms
4 po-300-xar01.londonderry.nh.boston.comcast.net (68.85.162.21) 21.525 ms po-2-rur301.londonderry.nh.boston.comcast.net (96.108.47.105) 21.228 ms 21.336 ms
5 * po-300-xar01.londonderry.nh.boston.comcast.net (68.85.162.21) 21.503 ms 27.378 ms
6 be-303-arsc1.needham.ma.boston.comcast.net (162.151.113.41) 23.166 ms * be-501-ar01.needham.ma.boston.comcast.net (162.151.52.34) 19.737 ms
7 * 162.151.52.50 (162.151.52.50) 17.102 ms 14.793 ms
8 * * ae3.3611.edge2.Dallas1.level3.net (4.69.209.5) 58.075 ms
9 4.71.217.102 (4.71.217.102) 58.403 ms ae3.3611.edge2.Dallas1.level3.net (4.69.209.5) 61.709 ms 61.501 ms
10 ae3.jbdr-02.dal.tierpoint.net (206.123.64.43) 58.127 ms 57.924 ms 4.71.217.102 (4.71.217.102) 58.181 ms
11 xe-001.jcore-04.dal.tierpoint.net (206.123.65.30) 61.005 ms 60.711 ms 60.744 ms
12 xe-001.jcore-04.dal.tierpoint.net (206.123.65.30) 60.865 ms 61.190 ms 72.249.128.19 (72.249.128.19) 57.490 ms
13 server.eyethrees.net (108.161.131.209) 57.445 ms 72.249.128.19 (72.249.128.19) 52.883 ms 61.568 ms