The problem IMHO is that the current situation should not be fatal unless you have an EV certificate or you have “Must-staple” set. Neither of this is true in my case and for most of users (I assume). And because of that any OCSP monitoring etc shouldn’t be necessary.
So, I suspect the real problem is a bug most likely in Chrome, because it’s the only browser affected and it isn’t problem either if OCSP stapling isn’t used. Or maybe the the bug in Apache. Can someone more familiar with OCSP stapling related standards confirm?