Dreamhost has an option to flush their internal DNS cache once every 12 or 24 hours. It's on the DNS section of their control panel, but can be somewhat hidden. I doubt that is the issue, but you can try.
Like @Osiris said, you don't seem to understand exactly what is going on.
Looking at your DNS, it is wrong.
Whois reports this for your domain:
Name Server: AUTH.ECFINTERNAL.NET
Name Server: NS1.DREAMHOST.COM
Name Server: NS2.DREAMHOST.COM
Name Server: NS3.DREAMHOST.COM
These all should be the dreamhost severs. This is configured on your registrar (dreamhost). You should remove the AUTH entry for that.
Follow the directions on acme-dns. Your acme-dns server must be publicly accessible, and the DNS server that delegates authority to it must be publicly accessible.
In the dreamhost dns, you should:
NSrecord forauth.ecfinternal.netpointing toauth.ecfinternal.netArecord forauth.ecfinternal.netpointing to your IP address
Any subdmains you want to authorize via DNS-01 will then have a CNAME _acme-challenge record pointing to the "account" placed on the acme-dns instance.
I would prefer not to go down the route of a private CA and faff about with installing CA certificates on 80+ hosts.
acme-dns will require 80+ accounts to be setup for this, which can be overwhelming.
the acme-dns maintainers were nice enough to merge a PR for me a while ago -- Relax subdomain validation from UUID to actual subdomain by jvanasco · Pull Request #243 · joohoi/acme-dns · GitHub - which relaxes their validation to allow for rfc compliant subdomains to be used instead of uuids.
My suggestion is to write a script that will pre-generate an acme-dns credential for each of the 80+ domains, then use/adapt this script I open sourced to change the UUIDs into subdomains that reflect the subdomain you want a certificate for (see peter_sslers/tools/replace_domain.py at main · aptise/peter_sslers · GitHub)
This way your DNS records for example.com would CNAME onto com.example.auth.ecfinternal.net instead of uuid-uuid-uuid-uuid.auth.ectinternal.net. That can make management, setup, and troubleshooting much easher.
If using acme-dns, there is ZERO reason to involve bind or the various rfc2136 commands to certbot. The only command that certbot needs to know is the manual-auth-hook.