Other volunteers may be willing to help educate you and configure Apache for stapling. It's more than I wish to take on. I will refer you to these topics. These are good background for understanding stapling and Apache.
The blog referred to in above thread:
https://blog.hboeck.de/archives/886-The-Problem-with-OCSP-Stapling-and-Must-Staple-and-why-Certificate-Revocation-is-still-broken.html