Howto disable apachectl reload after every single renew?

a single reload is working perfectly. But on my server, i serve several sites (500) which are hosted on several backend servers, its problematic . Apache is only the frontend serving SSL and is the LoadBalancer. After 30 renews, apache stopped reloading. When is take a look into the processes on Linux is noticed that Apache was completely unloaded. I have to reboot the entire server to start Apache again.